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Without getting literary on you guys, the same principle of being hard to get is at work in the most famous romance of all time, Romeo and Juliet. They come from different environments and social classes that are forbidden to meet, thereby making BOTH the guy and the chick crazy about each other. Both are hard to get.
Being hard to get is just ONE of THOUSANDS of concepts of attraction. The key point, though, is that guys are confusing what is NICE with what actually TRIGGERS attraction, whether a woman WANTS to feel that attraction or NOT! |
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They do this with extra-nice behavior, like smiling way more than they would with someone else, or by buying her fancy dinners, or by showing off in an effort to show that they are worthy.
Sometimes, guys give off the aura of being inferior by acting MEAN, which women can see right through as a device designed to overcompensate for low self-esteem. And because attractive women are BOMBARDED by men, they must QUICKLY decide if a guy is worth their time- this is why FIRST IMPRESSIONS are so important. Attractive women feel sexual chemistry a man who EXUDES an aura of ABSOLUTE SUPERIORITY. Some guys think this means to be a total jerk. Wrong. A jerk would show off a lot, and be cruel, and give off the message that he is actually insecure. Which is almost as bad as being too nice. |
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It puts you in a good mood, gives you energy and motivation for life, and thus makes you EXCITING to women.
Think about it, when you are in an awesome state of mind, when your self-esteem was skyrocketing, have you ever noticed how women respond to you much better? It’s NOT NATURAL to start feeling apologetic for being sexually attracted, (especially since women are sexual beings just as much as men) and to start to try to “make up for this sin” with chocolates, flowers, and favors, and ass-kissing. Women want MEN, regardless of what your environment is telling you. They don’t want a guy who feels like he is somehow inferior or is sinning or is guilty. So, for example, if you see a woman you’d like to talk to, just realize that this whole feeling is natural and does not require approval from anyone. Take the energy from your desire and just ENJOY your little interaction with her. Have FUN. |
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How about something like a sense of humor?
Well, society DOES value a sense of humor, but if you make SELF-DEPRECATING jokes about yourself to a woman, she may very well interpret that you are LOW on INTRINSIC VALUE despite your sense of humor. And so your sense of humor was used in a way that actually LOST you points on the sexy scale. See that? How about being RICH? MONEY is not INTRINSIC to your PERSONAL IDENTITY. So winning the lottery doesn't make you sexy. But if you for example earned it on your own without having the path smoothed for you it is an ABILITY that is ATTRACTIVE. The MORE society VALUES that ability, or that TRAIT, the SEXIER you become. |
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